Hi and my apologies for the delay in getting this edition of the community news ready.
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As many of you will know I have been very busy getting ready for some exciting talks in Thailand, It has been a long journey, but now things are all set and as always they are even better now than if things had gone ahead almost a year ago.
The Worry Free Life Course has now been translated into Thai, and hopefully that will give many people the chance to learn these amazing teachings. I must give HUGE thanks to Dr Warunyar Sadeem Ritenis the lady who has introduced the teachings contained in The Science Of Getting Rich to Thailand
It has been a great adventure working with Dr Warunyar, getting the contents of the book, in a format that would appeal to the Thai people.
During this time it has made many things clearer to me, and the close working relationship has created some very innovative teaching methods.
The new information and ideas that we have discovered during this time will be documented and put up on the course as bonuses. That is the great thing about this course, it is always being updated with new stuff.
Here are some tips that have come out of our work together:
Are you confused? It seems that the access to so much information is putting many people into information overload, and they are having trouble making sense of any of it. We have discovered during our work on producing the talks for Thailand, that there are just a few criteria that make obtaining and making sense of all this stuff very easy.
We all want to live a Worry Free Life, but with our brain in meltdown, we never seem to make any progress. So here are the tips to help you change things in your life.
- Choose one teacher, preferably one that can give you evidence and results as to what they teach, and more importantly one that you trust and identify with.
- Do not follow or read other information until you GET IT via that teacher. Once you get it, and only then , you can look at other systems and compare them, if you feel the need.
- Make a commitment to yourself and get your mindset right.
- Statistically only about 2% of people get any results from trying to use life changing programmes. This is because they THINK that things will not work for them. Once you have faith and belief in achieving your results, Nothing will be able to stop you.
- You cannot receive and accept new information, if you are not in the right frame of mind, and a competitive mind that is chasing everything will never create the same results as a mind that is creative and relaxed. (Remember, that anything you chase will instinctively run away, and that includes your vision.)
- Finally make sure that your GOALS and VISIONS reflect what you truly want, and not what you THINK you want. There is a world of difference. Making sure the changes you want are true desires, is a major part of your success.
If you follow these simple guidelines before setting off on your journey, you can clear your brain and start manifesting the things you want into your life.
RELAX and PROSPER
ARE YOU CHASING THE WRONG DREAM
This article tries to help you establish exactly what you really desire.
Let’s try and establish once and for all what rich is, and why it is so important to your success.
When we talk about the worlds truly wealthy people, our minds cannot resonating with being that wealthy, because the odds of us standing alongside them is hundreds of millions to one, even armed with all the best mindset and wealth creation advice ever written.
The spectrum of wealth is so broad that it confuses us, and we do not really know now what to think about wealth and the people with vast amounts of money.
Steve Jobs reportedly left $7billion, but if he was trying to be the richest man in the world, he had a long way to go, and may have been a bit disappointed with his efforts.
It is also worth noting that these huge sums of wealth are subject to fluctuation with world events, stock market movements, and also just plain bad business decisions, and that is why at the very top, the positions change on a weekly basis.
So taking away the very top positions in global wealth, where do you think would be a good place to pitch your vision of wealth? Would you be more HAPPY with $1billion or $4billion. Or could you make do with maybe as little as $20 million? It’s a tough call, but I just know that if it is true happiness you are after, these figures do not mean a thing.
It is a funny thing, but because of the ability for individuals to amass enough money to wipe out some countries national debt, it makes things easier for you, because the line of where rich kicks in, is well and truly blurred.
What we need to do now is establish what rich really is. My personal definition is, ‘To be able to do what you want to do, when you want to do it, and have enough TIME and MONEY to allow you to do it.’ Now the two main things that allow you to follow this definition, are TIME and MONEY. Ask any really wealthy person which one of these two things they are short of.
I spend a lot of time travelling and on those travels I enjoy the company of some very wealthy individuals, and all of them have their own issues. So please do not ever look at wealth as some sort of protection against the normal adversity’s of life, it isn’t, and sometimes the very fact of having vast amounts of money, creates its own problems.
OK so having established that there is no point in setting out trying to compete with the already wealthy, what is the answer? Well my thoughts are simplicity itself. You ask yourself what you want, and what would make you happy, not what you think, will make others think, that you are happy. Wealth is all about you and your relationship with it.
A good question to ask is would you rather have wealth and the life you have to suffer to accumulate real wealth, or would you rather just lead a Worry Free Life and have enough money to make it comfortable.
Once you make this choice it will relax you enormously, because it takes away the added pressures.
Whatever anyone tries to tell you, there are lots of sacrifices that need to be made to accumulate serious wealth, so decide now what you really want. Here is a clue, most people really do just want to experience a life that allows them to live well and do things along the way that are considered treats. If that sounds like you, then the ‘Worry Free Life’ online course is made for you.
Because I always bring wealth back to a lifestyle, many people try and imply that it is a cop out and my systems and teachings are no good to obtain real wealth. I have to answer by saying that I can only advise what I know to be true. I have had a roller coaster life and I would not change any of it. The bottom line is Val and I have been good contributors to charity and we have also financed young people to start their own businesses. We have recovered from some major setbacks and have been associated with some very wealthy people along the way. At this point in time, our lives are set so that we can travel when we want, we can do what we want, and we have the time and money to do it. If that lifestyle appeals to you then I can help. I am the richest person I know.
If you want to be a corporate high flyer and sacrifice certain parts of your life to achieve mega wealth, then I cannot help you. I was not willing to make the sacrifices for myself, so I am sure as hell not going to do it for you. The messages and teachings that I have can take you wherever you want to go, but I like to deliver a Worry Free Life and create wealth for you to use for the good of everyone. If you find that as a result of following the teachings, you do want to use them to create mega wealth that must be your decision. I have a funny feeling though that a Worry Free Lifestyle maybe just what you are looking for.
At this point I think it maybe prudent to tell you that it is not going to be a walk in the park, and these teachings have no magical powers to protect you from the normal ups and downs of life, they do however prepare you for them, and give you ways to deal with these situations
As with anything that you have to learn, it is the commitment and practice that achieves the results, and if you are prepared to put in the time, and trust the teachings, on faith initially, you cannot fail.
Why not take the pressure off yourself, and create your very own custom designed Worry Free Life?
Imagine learning how to create situations that have alluded you for years
Imagine being creative and not competitive.
Imagine having time for your family and taking them on the journey with you.
Imagine being financially sound, so that the bills that used to send you ducking for cover, can be settled immediately.
Imagine moving to a house that you only ever daydreamed about.
Imagine feeling relaxed and at peace with yourself.
Finally imagine feeling that you are actually living the life that you always knew you should, but never thought you could.
CREATING A VISION PART ONE
Mark Twain said, “I can give anyone anything they want, the
trouble is I cannot find anyone who knows what they want”
Creating your vision thing is where most people have great difficulty.
There are so many challenging things that have to be overcome, and it is in not understanding what we are trying to achieve that shipwrecks many early attempts.
It is your right to obtain wealth and create enough money to live a fulfilled life, and you MUST decide what fulfilled means to you based on what you feel would make you happy.
It is always a problem when people look at others and envy their lifestyle, when the truth may well be that that person could actually envy aspects of your lifestyle. For example a “successful” business person may have lots of disposable income, and the supposed trappings of success, but because of the situation they are in, they may not have the mindset or the time to enjoy it.
When creating your vision, it is important that you factor in initially, the things you love about your life now, that cost nothing, for example time with your family, exercise regimes, being available to do things with your children, time to enjoy the natural wonders of the universe like sunrise and sunsets, and of course time with friends. It is these very things that some people seem to sacrifice, in an attempt to obtain money and things, that they think might make them happy.
Most of the extremely wealthy people I know, get pleasure from doing some very basic things, and always wish that they had more time.and others have arrived at where they wanted to be financially, and have realised their assets, and have so much time on their hands that they get bored.
So as you can see, the more balanced that you can make things on the way to achieving your vision the better. That is why I recommend not making too many sacrifices on the way by ignoring the things mentioned earlier, that you enjoy now.
It is very difficult for us to create a vision based on things that we know nothing about, and many people arrive at a point they were aiming for, but have lost many important parts of their life.
My recommendation, when creating your vision, is to not rush it, but really decide how things will feel when you achieve it. Factor in all the important things that we discussed earlier, and make sure that you do not sacrifice them in an attempt to accellerate things, thinking that you can put it right later. You will never be able to put those things right however much money you get, one thing you cannot buy is time that has already passed.
A point to consider here is very important and it is the true foundation of your success in creating and achieving your vision. You must change your thoughts and feelings deep inside, and truly believe in your ability to allow your new life to come to you.
I read somewhere that if all the money in the world was divided equally among all the inhabitants of the world, eventually the distribution would get back to pretty much how it was. That is the rich becoming rich again and the poor becoming poor again. This would indicate that each persons mindset has controlled the redistribution.
In conclusion, It does not matter what you visualise, if you do not change your mindset to one of belief in achieving, and faith in receiving, unfortunately you will remain exactly where you are.
Remember it is your right to have all you need and desire, and it is only past information and programming that is limiting you.
THE FIVE MOST REPEATED REGRETS FROM THE DEATH BED
That sounds a bit morbid, but it is amazing how truthful people become when they know they do not have long left. These regrets were the most common and have been assembled after talking to many palliative care nurses.
1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
This was the most common regret of all. When people realize that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made.
It is very important to try and honour at least some of your dreams along the way. From the moment that you lose your health, it is too late. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it.
2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.
This came from every male patient . They missed their children’s youth and their partner’s companionship. Women also spoke of this regret. But as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence.
By simplifying your lifestyle and making conscious choices along the way, it is possible to not need the income that you think you do. And by creating more space in your life, you become happier and more open to new opportunities, ones more suited to your new lifestyle.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result.
We cannot control the reactions of others. However, although people may initially react when you change the way you are by speaking honestly, in the end it raises the relationship to a whole new and healthier level. Either that or it releases the unhealthy relationship from your life. Either way, you win.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.
It is common for anyone in a busy lifestyle to let friendships slip. But when you are faced with your approaching death, the physical details of life fall away. People do want to get their financial affairs in order if possible. But it is not money or status that holds the true importance for them. They want to get things in order more for the benefit of those they love. Usually though, they are too ill and weary to ever manage this task. It is all comes down to love and relationships in the end.
That is all that remains in the final weeks, love and relationships.
5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.
This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called ‘comfort’ of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content. When deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again. When you are on your deathbed, what others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again, long before you are dying.
Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly. Choose happiness.
I hope you take that on board, there are some very poignant facts there that should get you thinking.
THIS MONTHS COMPETITION
The question is What could Mark Twain not find?
When you have found the answer email firstname.lastname@example.org with COMPETITION in the Subject line
There will be 5 prizes this month of Worry Free Life online courses, valued at $197 each.
The draw will take place on June 12th and the winners will be notified and the names will be posted on the website.
You cannot win it if you are no in it.
Thoughts from Worry Free Island: One of the main things that happen when you are in the turmoil of a crisis is that you cannot see an end. You feel as though you have been singled out to be persecuted and then your mind wanders to every other situation in your life and you put the worst possible scenario outcome on them as well.
The obvious thing that happens then, is that you start making decisions based on fear and desperation, not an ideal state of mind to make important decisions.
Although things seem hopeless and you cannot see a solution, there always is an end to the situation and the more you relax the better the solution will be.
The universe will deliver exactly what you visualise. The trouble is that we seem to be brilliant at visualising defeat and failure and that is what gets delivered.
Why is it that we are so good at visualising negative thoughts? The reason is that the universe never falters and every time we think negative thoughts, that is what is delivered, so an accumulation of the results we get and the programming by others, gives us regular negative results.
I have found that we get to believe the world is against us because we get such regular results when thinking of bad outcomes, just imagine getting the results based on what we really want to achieve.
Just imagine what happens when you train your mind to be positive and believe the outcome? That is the key to a happy successful life.
TIP: Whatever the situation, by just working on changing your thoughts ” You can always take control”
Well I hope there is plenty here for you to think about. Don’t forget to enter the competition.
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